📖推荐一本好书:智胜身边的反社会者:如何保护自己免受无情操纵者的侵害(目前还无中文译本),它的前作有中文的。
作者不仅科普了反社会者和他们能够操纵成功的原理,最后章节还加以区别了反社会人格和自恋人格障碍,两者有很多共同点(如不停说谎),但说谎的目的不一样。“In general, the narcissist delights in being singled out; the sociopath wishes to blend in.”
书名取名为身边的,作者意思是他们离我们并不遥远,他们存在在我们每日的生活里,并且他们自己知道自己是。作者给出的智胜方法简单来说,首先得有那个意识(即反社会可以是身边任何人),学会鉴别,快逃🏃🏃🏃
📖“abuse flourishes in secrecy and isolation, remaining in such a closed system in any area of your life will make you dangerously vulnerable to sociopathic exploitation. ”
📖“if the person under discussion wishes to keep you isolated and strongly objects to your conversations with anyone else, consider that a large red flag.”
前作《当良知沉睡:辨认身边的反社会人格者》玛莎·斯托特 | 微信读书
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