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置顶自杀式同情心/自杀式共情是指同理心的三种失灵/不良误触发：1）同情心过度活跃；2）同情心在错误的情境中被激活；3）共情罪犯，而不是受害者。
Suicidal Empathy
Dying to be Kind
同理心是大自然慢慢演化留给人类的天赋，我们作为群居生物，懂得心疼他人、体谅旁人，才能安稳群居生活，这份本心本身是健康且必要的。
但很多心理问题都有同一个规律：原本有用的天赋，一旦失控跑偏，就会伤害自己。
共情也是同理，一旦变形，就演变成了“自杀式共情”，它一共有三种出错形式：
第一，共情泛滥过头，心思过度敏感，无休止包揽所有人的情绪烦恼；
第二，用错了场合，不该心软的时候盲目泛滥同情心；
第三，同情的对象本身是不合理、不值得包容的。
欧洲政府用“那是他们的文化”
保护非法移民、强奸犯
但对在社交媒体发表情包的本国公民，重拳出击
美国，民主党多年以来，拿着纳税人的钱，免费送给非法移民，却对合法移民、高素质移民百般刁难。
Suicidal Empathy
Dying to be Kind
同理心是大自然慢慢演化留给人类的天赋，我们作为群居生物，懂得心疼他人、体谅旁人，才能安稳群居生活，这份本心本身是健康且必要的。
但很多心理问题都有同一个规律：原本有用的天赋，一旦失控跑偏，就会伤害自己。
共情也是同理，一旦变形，就演变成了“自杀式共情”，它一共有三种出错形式：
第一，共情泛滥过头，心思过度敏感，无休止包揽所有人的情绪烦恼；
第二，用错了场合，不该心软的时候盲目泛滥同情心；
第三，同情的对象本身是不合理、不值得包容的。
欧洲政府用“那是他们的文化”
保护非法移民、强奸犯
但对在社交媒体发表情包的本国公民，重拳出击
美国，民主党多年以来，拿着纳税人的钱，免费送给非法移民，却对合法移民、高素质移民百般刁难。
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今年最期待的电影《沙丘 3》，原著小说里运用了大量内心独白和心理描写，电影不能这样拍，导演正确的删减了所有这些内容，转而运用电影语言呈现
但这导致电影删减的情节太多了
单独看电影也好看，但看完小说再看电影效果会好非常多。
●推荐 喜马拉雅APP 上的真人朗读《沙丘》原著小说（有声书）
有 VIP 标志的就是官方正版真人朗读
打开（人声独享）可以去除背景音乐
但这导致电影删减的情节太多了
单独看电影也好看，但看完小说再看电影效果会好非常多。
●推荐 喜马拉雅APP 上的真人朗读《沙丘》原著小说（有声书）
有 VIP 标志的就是官方正版真人朗读
打开（人声独享）可以去除背景音乐
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当 AI 做到了 1 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 2
当 AI 做到了 2 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 3
当 AI 做到了 3 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 4
当 AI 做到了 4 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 5
当 AI 做到了 2 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 3
当 AI 做到了 3 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 4
当 AI 做到了 4 ，人们就说 AI 做不到 5
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美国一些保守派的富豪，禁止子女去哈佛大学这类的左派学院。一个正常的小女孩，进入左派学院几年就面目全非了，比如这位蒙古女孩，本来是一个正常小女孩。来到美国密歇根大学攻读全球民族研究课程。
支持圣战分子萨伊德选参议员的美国蒙古裔学生（父母来自内蒙古）Temulun Togochog因对一个犹太女孩的暴力行为而被警察拘捕。她上大学前是个传统女孩，之后变成带鼻环的狂热左派。美国大学已成洗脑中心（把孩子变成弱智、脑残），进去一个小天真，出来一个小左疯。比奥斯维辛还可怕，因它杀死人的灵魂！
支持圣战分子萨伊德选参议员的美国蒙古裔学生（父母来自内蒙古）Temulun Togochog因对一个犹太女孩的暴力行为而被警察拘捕。她上大学前是个传统女孩，之后变成带鼻环的狂热左派。美国大学已成洗脑中心（把孩子变成弱智、脑残），进去一个小天真，出来一个小左疯。比奥斯维辛还可怕，因它杀死人的灵魂！
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My respect for Elon Musk has mostly vanished, but I still thought that at least he is a good engineer (Teslas are great cars). But that last bit also got a blow after hearing him say that it is easier to "cool things down" in space. The opposite is true. A vacuum is the best possible isolator. In space you can only dissipate heat through radiation. It is extremely unlikely these data centers in space will ever happen (and certainly not in our lifetimes).
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很多人分不清想不想/能不能
●比如我认为俄罗斯能打赢，并不代表我希望俄罗斯打赢，这是两个不同的概念；
●比如现在是半夜三点钟，我想吃冰淇淋，但我能不能吃到冰淇淋？ 显然不能，半夜三点钟上哪里买冰淇淋。
●我发现大部分成年人，也分不清两者之间的差别，比如在俄乌战争问题上。
●比如我认为俄罗斯能打赢，并不代表我希望俄罗斯打赢，这是两个不同的概念；
●比如现在是半夜三点钟，我想吃冰淇淋，但我能不能吃到冰淇淋？ 显然不能，半夜三点钟上哪里买冰淇淋。
●我发现大部分成年人，也分不清两者之间的差别，比如在俄乌战争问题上。
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As a father who just chose not to send my older son to public school, here's what's happening:
1. NYC public schools are full of woke, mentally ill people. The teachers, the students, the counselors, everyone is wacked out. If you're just a normal parent that wants a normal school with a normal focus on education, good behavior, friendship, manners, etc. you are shit out of luck.
2. While there are some good elementary schools, most middle schools are atrocious, and result in some of the biggest drops in education outcomes. Even if you send your kid to a good elementary public school, you're 100% going to move in time for middle school. And if you make it to high school, your only hope are the specialized schools, but mamdani the islamist is intent on destroying them, which would completely fuck your kids.
3. The average kid in an average NYC public school is stupid as hell. 70% do not read proficiently for their grade level. They can't do math. They have a ton of behavioral issues and are bad influences on your kid.
As a normal father of a normal family I'm paying an absurd amount of taxes and for what? My hard earned money is being wasted on the comically evil teachers union, paying adult day care fraudsters, and subsidizing the "73% of public school students in poverty." This is just a scam. Those kids are not in poverty. Their parents work under the table, don't report anything to not pay taxes, and get ridiculous government subsidies.
Everyone is running a scam and families like mine are paying for it. It's no wonder so many of my peers left and despite living in NYC for coming on 30 years, I probably will too at some point.
1. NYC public schools are full of woke, mentally ill people. The teachers, the students, the counselors, everyone is wacked out. If you're just a normal parent that wants a normal school with a normal focus on education, good behavior, friendship, manners, etc. you are shit out of luck.
2. While there are some good elementary schools, most middle schools are atrocious, and result in some of the biggest drops in education outcomes. Even if you send your kid to a good elementary public school, you're 100% going to move in time for middle school. And if you make it to high school, your only hope are the specialized schools, but mamdani the islamist is intent on destroying them, which would completely fuck your kids.
3. The average kid in an average NYC public school is stupid as hell. 70% do not read proficiently for their grade level. They can't do math. They have a ton of behavioral issues and are bad influences on your kid.
As a normal father of a normal family I'm paying an absurd amount of taxes and for what? My hard earned money is being wasted on the comically evil teachers union, paying adult day care fraudsters, and subsidizing the "73% of public school students in poverty." This is just a scam. Those kids are not in poverty. Their parents work under the table, don't report anything to not pay taxes, and get ridiculous government subsidies.
Everyone is running a scam and families like mine are paying for it. It's no wonder so many of my peers left and despite living in NYC for coming on 30 years, I probably will too at some point.
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