Reddit上一个标题是"Got laid off after 6 years. Here's what I learned"的贴子1,"The layoff wasn't about me. It was about the spreadsheet.";2,"The first week I cried. The second week I updated my resume. The third week I realized I'd been wanting to leave for two years but was too comfortable.";3,"Nobody talks about the identity crisis. I wasn't just losing a job, I was losing the answer to 'what do you do?'"