小宇宙播客《michael大麦哥》笔记：
成年人的相爱 难度其实很高，因为每个人身后都拖着很长的人生 有旧的感情 固化生活习惯有工作牵绊 家人羁绊金钱的考量 身体的隐优还有一些不愿再提的经历 以及一套已形成很多年的价值观这时的相爱 不再是两张白纸的叠加而是两个写完前半生的人商量着 后半生能不能一起落笔。

小宇宙播客《michael大麦哥》最近听播客，记住了一句很戳我的话：
我希望你留在我身边，不是离开你我就无法生活。
而是我本就有独自好好生活的能力，能照顾好自己，也拥有独自前行的勇气。
只是，我依然希望这条路，有你。

What is the point of getting to somewhere, if you're not going to enjoy the process? Because guess what, whatever you're working towards to get to that end, there's nothing there. There's nothing there. There's no pot of gold that lies on the end of the rainbow. There's nothing there. It just goes on and on and on and on.
Your life is one long marathon, not a sprint. Stop running through your life. Walk, observe. Look at the trees. Smell the flowers. Greet the fox in the wood. You know it's like your life is supposed to be lived and lived. Doesn't mean the fancy sports car. Getting two hundred thousand dollars in a week. Like those are just little perks that come with life, but that's not the whole point.
Life is one long fruitful experience, and it's supposed to be fun. And in order for us to have strong muscles, have strong mindset, be kind to other people, come out to creatively fulfill ourselves, you have to rest as well. That is why we sleep. That's why we sleep. You know, if we w

过程永远比结果重要

这个世界目以继曰，金力以趾的想让你成为其他人。
但你依然需要日以继日全力以赴成自己。

“人生的起点与终点，常常是错位的。你最初为A拼尽全力，却在B上收获了成功，最终被世界定义的，是你在C上的伟大。这些看似偏离轨道的结果，其实都藏着看不见的关联。
你真正想表达的是D，起点是A，最终想要的是B，却在C上获得了认可，而你真实的需求其实是D。
不必为暂时的错位焦虑，每一步都算数。
不必急着给所有问题找答案，你急于解答的心态，本身不一定是为了解决事情本身。慢慢来，时间会给你最好的安排。”

世界是连续的，而语言是离散的。

早上的阳光和晚霞都要拥有

每次看到阎鹤祥的那场脱口秀还是会感动🥹
“也许无法改变，但请不要逃避”

这世界上没有遗憾，只有放错地方的希望。
世界上没有垃圾、只有放错位置的资源。