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「27 岁男子生存指南」
1. 坚信自己是宇宙的主宰，其他人都是香蕉。因为香蕉和人有 50% 的基因是相近的。
2. 将90% 的时间和精力放在自己身上，让自己开心，让自己快乐，让自己获得成就感和正向反馈。
3. 使用各种 AI，用 AI 去完成各种不同的事情，疯狂的用 AI。像孙哥说的，多和 AI 说话，而不是和人说话。
4. 将自己的生活、工作、个人兴趣等托付给最聪明的 AI。
5. 理解父母等人的关心都是出于他们的时代局限，笑一笑，然后微笑拒绝。
6. 把豆包推荐给父母使用，如果有条件的话，可以给他们上 WorkBuddy 之类的。
7. 和父母划清界限，要明白他们的人生已经过半，而你的人生才刚刚开始。父母不会为你的人生买单，只有你自己会。
8. 定投纳斯达克或者标普，不要把钱放在余额宝里，也不要去买任何自己不理解的投资品。
9. 敢于表达自己的非共识，敢于与其他、非利益相关人起任何矛盾。
10. 抵制婚姻、房车等大额的不符合自己生产能力的开销，应该把钱等资源投入到自己身上。
11. 坚持复利效应，一年后、十年后也能持续对自己产生价值的东西才是复利。
12. 坚持健身，保持良好心态，任何影响自己心态的人或者事都拉黑。
13. 每天、每周、每月持续记录自己并复盘。
14. 办好护照、通行证等，相信自己是世界公民，而不是某国公民。
15. 拍自己的帅照，然后到处发。把自己的观点打印出来，在自己的社交平台，并且到处发。
16. 有计划的去不同的城市、不同的地区去玩。敢于结交不同的朋友，敢于去做之前不敢做的事。
17. 过滤自己的信息流，经常去刷高质量的信息，去获取科技圈的新闻。
「27 岁男子生存指南」
1. 坚信自己是宇宙的主宰，其他人都是香蕉。因为香蕉和人有 50% 的基因是相近的。
2. 将90% 的时间和精力放在自己身上，让自己开心，让自己快乐，让自己获得成就感和正向反馈。
3. 使用各种 AI，用 AI 去完成各种不同的事情，疯狂的用 AI。像孙哥说的，多和 AI 说话，而不是和人说话。
4. 将自己的生活、工作、个人兴趣等托付给最聪明的 AI。
5. 理解父母等人的关心都是出于他们的时代局限，笑一笑，然后微笑拒绝。
6. 把豆包推荐给父母使用，如果有条件的话，可以给他们上 WorkBuddy 之类的。
7. 和父母划清界限，要明白他们的人生已经过半，而你的人生才刚刚开始。父母不会为你的人生买单，只有你自己会。
8. 定投纳斯达克或者标普，不要把钱放在余额宝里，也不要去买任何自己不理解的投资品。
9. 敢于表达自己的非共识，敢于与其他、非利益相关人起任何矛盾。
10. 抵制婚姻、房车等大额的不符合自己生产能力的开销，应该把钱等资源投入到自己身上。
11. 坚持复利效应，一年后、十年后也能持续对自己产生价值的东西才是复利。
12. 坚持健身，保持良好心态，任何影响自己心态的人或者事都拉黑。
13. 每天、每周、每月持续记录自己并复盘。
14. 办好护照、通行证等，相信自己是世界公民，而不是某国公民。
15. 拍自己的帅照，然后到处发。把自己的观点打印出来，在自己的社交平台，并且到处发。
16. 有计划的去不同的城市、不同的地区去玩。敢于结交不同的朋友，敢于去做之前不敢做的事。
17. 过滤自己的信息流，经常去刷高质量的信息，去获取科技圈的新闻。
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We tell young people in our society that end of the rainbow is retirement at 65.
我们这个社会的年轻人被告知，彩虹的尽头是65岁退休。
We ought to tell them that "there is going to be this short but beautiful golden window from roughly age 3 to roughly age 12 where your kids are not only easy (comparatively to bottles & diapers), but are going to be these beautiful little creatures and it will pain your heart to be away from them for too long.
我们应该告诉他们：「从大约3岁到大约12岁，会有一段短暂而美好的黄金窗口期——这段时间里，孩子不仅好带（比起喂奶换尿布的时期），还会变成一个个美好的小生命，离开他们太久你会心痛。
So, prepare in your 20's, financially and career wise, to build that flexibility into that chapter of your life".
所以，在你20多岁时就在财务和事业上做好准备，把这种灵活性提前安排进人生那个篇章。」
You don't get another shot at living the "golden window".
「黄金窗口」只有一次，没有重来的机会。
And, for me, leaning hard into that golden window has made everything else in my life feel fairly insignificant in comparison.
对我而言，全身心投入这段黄金窗口，让我生命中其他一切相比之下都显得无足轻重。
I have made plenty of mistakes as a father, but what I won't have is the regret of having been distracted and absent from these formative years.
作为父亲我犯过很多错，但我不会留下这样的遗憾：在孩子性格成型的关键年份里分心、缺席。
In some cases, that has required financial sacrifices (declining a particular career opportunity that would have required relocation), but I personally have zero regrets.
有些时候这需要经济上的牺牲（我曾拒绝过一个需要搬家的职业机会），但我个人毫无悔意。
I also hear from some ambitious & successful people with a 4 year old that say "I've lost my ambition, I am so immersed in fatherhood".
我也听一些有4岁孩子的、上进又成功的人说：「我失去了野心，我完全沉浸在当爸爸这件事里了。」
At least for me, and a number of my friends, it comes back.
至少对我和我的一些朋友来说，野心会回来的。
You can't keep an ambitious person down and if you have the fire, hanging at a playground on too many Tuesday afternoons is going to feel like torture after too long.
你压不住一个有野心的人；如果你心里有火，太多工作日的下午泡在儿童游乐场里，时间久了就会变成一种折磨。
My three boys are approaching 13, 11 & 9, and it's much different than 7, 5 & 3.
我的三个儿子快13岁、11岁、9岁了，这和7岁、5岁、3岁时
This summer, for example, they slept until 11am and I2pm to work (being on PT helps), then got another great window 7-11pm, but was able to be present in theeks when they were at basketball camp, etc.
比如今年夏天，他们睡到上午11点，我就有了一段早上6点到（兼职身份帮了忙），晚上7点到11点又是一段好时间，而白 天最核心的时段我都能陪在他们身边，还有几周他们去篮球
It gets easier, your time frees up again (there's a s'm back to working as intensely as I did pre-kids just because my day to day presence requires fewer hours ty wife is just superbly wonderful).
一切会变轻松，你的时间重新空出来（这也带着一点伤感） 强度工作，只是因为日常陪伴所需的时间比以前少了（另外，我妻子真的非常非常好）。
And that is the beautiful gift of entrepreneurship (oness), the ability to deliver still a high level ofoutput but work that around your life rather than the opposite.
这正是创业美好的馈赠（至少对我这种生意而言）：依然能 着生活转，而不是反过来。
TLDR, grind before, and grind after. Prepare for the golden window.
一句话总结：之前拼命拼，之后也拼命拼，为黄金窗口做好
我们这个社会的年轻人被告知，彩虹的尽头是65岁退休。
We ought to tell them that "there is going to be this short but beautiful golden window from roughly age 3 to roughly age 12 where your kids are not only easy (comparatively to bottles & diapers), but are going to be these beautiful little creatures and it will pain your heart to be away from them for too long.
我们应该告诉他们：「从大约3岁到大约12岁，会有一段短暂而美好的黄金窗口期——这段时间里，孩子不仅好带（比起喂奶换尿布的时期），还会变成一个个美好的小生命，离开他们太久你会心痛。
So, prepare in your 20's, financially and career wise, to build that flexibility into that chapter of your life".
所以，在你20多岁时就在财务和事业上做好准备，把这种灵活性提前安排进人生那个篇章。」
You don't get another shot at living the "golden window".
「黄金窗口」只有一次，没有重来的机会。
And, for me, leaning hard into that golden window has made everything else in my life feel fairly insignificant in comparison.
对我而言，全身心投入这段黄金窗口，让我生命中其他一切相比之下都显得无足轻重。
I have made plenty of mistakes as a father, but what I won't have is the regret of having been distracted and absent from these formative years.
作为父亲我犯过很多错，但我不会留下这样的遗憾：在孩子性格成型的关键年份里分心、缺席。
In some cases, that has required financial sacrifices (declining a particular career opportunity that would have required relocation), but I personally have zero regrets.
有些时候这需要经济上的牺牲（我曾拒绝过一个需要搬家的职业机会），但我个人毫无悔意。
I also hear from some ambitious & successful people with a 4 year old that say "I've lost my ambition, I am so immersed in fatherhood".
我也听一些有4岁孩子的、上进又成功的人说：「我失去了野心，我完全沉浸在当爸爸这件事里了。」
At least for me, and a number of my friends, it comes back.
至少对我和我的一些朋友来说，野心会回来的。
You can't keep an ambitious person down and if you have the fire, hanging at a playground on too many Tuesday afternoons is going to feel like torture after too long.
你压不住一个有野心的人；如果你心里有火，太多工作日的下午泡在儿童游乐场里，时间久了就会变成一种折磨。
My three boys are approaching 13, 11 & 9, and it's much different than 7, 5 & 3.
我的三个儿子快13岁、11岁、9岁了，这和7岁、5岁、3岁时
This summer, for example, they slept until 11am and I2pm to work (being on PT helps), then got another great window 7-11pm, but was able to be present in theeks when they were at basketball camp, etc.
比如今年夏天，他们睡到上午11点，我就有了一段早上6点到（兼职身份帮了忙），晚上7点到11点又是一段好时间，而白 天最核心的时段我都能陪在他们身边，还有几周他们去篮球
It gets easier, your time frees up again (there's a s'm back to working as intensely as I did pre-kids just because my day to day presence requires fewer hours ty wife is just superbly wonderful).
一切会变轻松，你的时间重新空出来（这也带着一点伤感） 强度工作，只是因为日常陪伴所需的时间比以前少了（另外，我妻子真的非常非常好）。
And that is the beautiful gift of entrepreneurship (oness), the ability to deliver still a high level ofoutput but work that around your life rather than the opposite.
这正是创业美好的馈赠（至少对我这种生意而言）：依然能 着生活转，而不是反过来。
TLDR, grind before, and grind after. Prepare for the golden window.
一句话总结：之前拼命拼，之后也拼命拼，为黄金窗口做好
瓦恁: 𝕏刷到一条很有共鸣的帖子（所以上网就是一个找共鸣的过程） We tell young people in our society that end of the rainbow is retirement at 65. We ought to tell them that "there is going to be this short but beautiful golden window from roughly age 3 to roughly age 12 where your kids are not only easy (comparatively to bottles & diapers), but are going to be these beautiful little creatures and it will pain your heart to be away from them for too long. So, prepare in your 20's, financially and career wise, to build that flexibility into that chapter of your life". You don't get another shot at living the "golden window". And, for me, leaning hard into that golden window has made everything else in my life feel fairly insignificant in comparison. I have made plenty of mistakes as a father, but what I won't have is the regret of having been distracted and absent from these formative years. In some cases, that has required financial sacrifices (declining a particular career opportunity that would have required relocation), but I personally have zero regrets. I also hear from some ambitious & successful people with a 4 year old that say "I've lost my ambition, I am so immersed in fatherhood". At least for me, and a number of my friends, it comes back. You can't keep an ambitious person down and if you have the fire, hanging at a playground on too many Tuesday afternoons is going to feel like torture after too long. My three boys are approaching 13, 11 & 9, and it's much different than 7, 5 & 3. This summer, for example, they slept until 11am and I hard an unencumbered 6am-12pm to work (being on PT helps), then got another great window 7-11pm, but was able to be present in the heart of the day, then weeks when they were at basketball camp, etc. It gets easier, your time frees up again (there's a sadness to that too), but I'm back to working as intensely as I did pre-kids just because my day to day presence requires fewer hours than it did before (also, my wife is just superbly wonderful). And that is the beautiful gift of entrepreneurship (or at least my sort of business), the ability to deliver still a high level of output but work that around your life rather than the opposite. TLDR, grind before, and grind after. Prepare for the golden window. https://x.com/paulg/status/2090293572818137120
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#选题
V2EX—《水多了加面，面多了加水》
官员升迁只由上级考核决定，与市民满不满意无关，故只对上负责、不对下负责。
• 少数人的位置不由多数人决定 城投债是这样 ,深圳地铁也是
• 面加水也行，水加面也罢， 但厨子和面不是一家人
V2EX—《水多了加面，面多了加水》
官员升迁只由上级考核决定，与市民满不满意无关，故只对上负责、不对下负责。
• 少数人的位置不由多数人决定 城投债是这样 ,深圳地铁也是
• 面加水也行，水加面也罢， 但厨子和面不是一家人
832: 原来北京地铁上强度安检是08年北京奥运会的遗产啊，深圳总算是赶上啦！
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0代码，7块钱把AI做的app上线了。
踩了一个坑：GitHub Pages 免费域名是 xxx.github.io，微信直接判「境外未认证域名」，链接发出去打不开。
换成阿里云 7 块钱的 .xyz 域名，做实名认证，CNAME 指向 github.io，微信里就能正常打开了。
上线前清单：真手机测过、刷新数据还在、微信里能打开、空数据/超长输入不崩、代码里没有隐私信息（仓库是公开的）。
教程开源了
踩了一个坑：GitHub Pages 免费域名是 xxx.github.io，微信直接判「境外未认证域名」，链接发出去打不开。
换成阿里云 7 块钱的 .xyz 域名，做实名认证，CNAME 指向 github.io，微信里就能正常打开了。
上线前清单：真手机测过、刷新数据还在、微信里能打开、空数据/超长输入不崩、代码里没有隐私信息（仓库是公开的）。
教程开源了
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长尾理论与SOP流程
之前在研究生阶段上"设计管理与专题研究"课，老师提到长尾理论：
未来企业或市场的需求是复杂多样化的，通用型诉求已经无法满足到"个人"这个颗粒度，真正需要被满足的是企业微端甚至个人的长尾诉求。
Claude Code 的 SOP 流程，正是这部分长尾诉求的满足方式——因为你的诉求和其他人不一样，你需要精细化才能到达你的长尾场景，实现你的诉求。
这就要求你不断"进精"：把自己的在场体验与感悟持续描述给 AI，让它来模拟你的"在场"，从而解决你的诉求。
这也是为什么你的 SOP 会越来越多——每一条 SOP 都是把一次具体的、个人化的在场经验固化下来，喂给 AI，让它下次能替你"在场"。
之前在研究生阶段上"设计管理与专题研究"课，老师提到长尾理论：
未来企业或市场的需求是复杂多样化的，通用型诉求已经无法满足到"个人"这个颗粒度，真正需要被满足的是企业微端甚至个人的长尾诉求。
Claude Code 的 SOP 流程，正是这部分长尾诉求的满足方式——因为你的诉求和其他人不一样，你需要精细化才能到达你的长尾场景，实现你的诉求。
这就要求你不断"进精"：把自己的在场体验与感悟持续描述给 AI，让它来模拟你的"在场"，从而解决你的诉求。
这也是为什么你的 SOP 会越来越多——每一条 SOP 都是把一次具体的、个人化的在场经验固化下来，喂给 AI，让它下次能替你"在场"。
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