即刻再见👋

好久不用即刻突然回来有一种突然打开百度贴吧帝吧的阳痿感。聚集了各种类型discriminators且非常自信的号称自己的表达是冒犯的艺术。众所周知，优秀男在女性/弱势/边缘性群体议题中感受到的不是对弱者的共情，而是对比他更差一点做的不好的男性的区隔，通过这个区隔来体现他的性别意识。曾经的即刻是RSS知识开源库，现在CGG的涌入仿佛彼时的知乎，登味直冲天灵盖。

已经过了智性恋的年纪。知识不通过性传播

只喜欢190+（最好195）blue eyes+blonde+八块腹肌的配置...国男性缩力真拉满

My feminist awakening came from a woman who grew up in a small rural village in Hunan. She suffered from gender discrimination and endured countless psychological wounds. I once read the words she wrote — filled with sorrow, yet brimming with strength.
Later, she met her current husband. They had only known each other for two months when they flew to the U.S. and got married at a courthouse, without posting a single thing on social media. Her husband holds a PhD in computer science from UIUC, and I’ve seen his photos — he is incredibly handsome.
She, on the other hand, would be considered “very average” by mainstream beauty standards — not conventionally attractive. But I truly, deeply believe she is beautiful. So full of life.
She used to have a large following on social media. It was through her writing that I learned her story, and through her writing that I was introduced to feminism.
Only then did I begin to realize how many things I myself had gone through.
I’ve been sexually assaulted.
When I was a content creator on Xiaohongshu, I was attacked by at least a thousand Chinese men with online abuse and slut-shaming.
And there were many more awful experiences.
I used to be full of self-doubt and hypersensitivity, constantly afraid of upsetting others.
But today, I suddenly feel like I am growing new flesh and blood at a terrifying speed.
I’ve become so sharp, so aggressive — even when I face waves of hate.
I thought of the Italian film C’è ancora domani, and I finally realized:
According to the Italian Civil Code of 1942:
1. The husband was the legal head of the family; the wife couldn’t work without his permission.
2. A wife who committed adultery could be imprisoned; a husband would only be convicted if he slept with another man’s wife.
3. If a wife injured her husband, she could be jailed for months or even years, depending on the severity — but the husband’s violence against his wife was often dismissed as “correction.”
4. Divorce was illegal in Italy until 1974.
It hit me that women across the world have always gone through the same things.
Idk if becoming this aggressive is good or bad for me.
All I know is: I want to keep fighting until every one of my wounds has been healed.
That woman who inspired me has now been living in the U.S. for four years. For three of those years, she hasn’t worked — she’s simply enjoyed life.
Now, she only shares bits of her life with her husband, her dog, her cat, and her friends.
Her life has finally stepped onto the path of love.
I wonder if one day, I’ll get to that place too.

对不起我已经失去贞洁，我是一个已经交过社保的荡妇了🥺

2520年了哥你还在用机器人裹小脚搞苏北人乡毋宁这一套。👍

骂女人的词是bitch, 男人的呢？
Man

哥们一定沾沾自喜自己的超绝屏蔽力。但我会继续表达，会疯狂表达。一个人只有经历过种族歧视或者在这套框架体系下的生活才会设身处地地理解女性在国内受到的各种恶意以及出于不安全感的应激反应。金斯伯格大法官的做法是，争取和他们同样的位置和话语权，然后据理力争去表达和争取自己的利益。首先自己强大有话语权很重要（不要把世界和位置让给讨厌的人），其次用别人最好能接受的方式，去表达和抗争，最终都是为了达到目的。但我要保持aggressive，我是我，这样的生态语境始终需要一部分尖锐的人存在，才有可能慢慢拿回原本被挤占的、失语的女性话语空间。

亚洲男性碰到女性的时候，总是在把她当成一个人之前，先把她看成女人。